Well I, for one agree with you. I'm a native born norwegian and slowly starting to despise society around me. Norwegians tend to keep to people they already know, so as someone who fell of track in high school with almost no social circle have led to an almost extreme amount social isolation. I'm in university now, I have social anxiety and do take some initiative which is fucking hard for me. But all I see is my peers inviting each other to parties and having fun and only keep in touch with people they already know. If you start from scratch in this society with struggles, well you're gonna have a bad time.