I didn't say you weren't, it was still just an example. I just say that my meaning is that it doesn't hurt to smile a little, I said that in my frist post too, I am not telling anyone to be different, I just told my opinion to TS! You hang yourself to much up in the details. In my second post I told you what I meant, in my third post also. I was, and still am using examples for you to read. This is my fourth post, and I am not trying again. You are welcome to interpret my posts in any way you like. Happy new year!