As others have noted, it might simply be your personality that doesn't go too well with the typical Norwegian. (But probably goes well with people of other nationalities). You might write this off as me not being able to take your criticism, but by your writing here you do come off as very direct and forward/confronting. Which is characteristics that throws at least me (as a Norwegian) completely off. (Unlike being humble and gentle).

Why should we fix this, if this is the way of living most of us find comfort in?